AWFR DISCIPLINE POLICIES
Introduction
These introductory notes are generalizations and not meant
to be all inclusive regarding today’s youngest generation. Let’s proceed.
Children are growing up, today, without the responsible
thinking that they need. Many of them
lack the ability to cooperate with parents, teachers, and peers. They haven’t learned to obey rules, and they
haven’t learned self-discipline. For
these reasons, the Arkansas Winter Family Retreat (AWFR) Director has taken
steps to introduce the Responsible Thinking Classroom.
The Responsible Thinking Classroom
1. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom is a place where campers are taught the
necessary skills for getting along in the camp environment.
2. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom is a place where campers are taught the skills
needed to do the following:
·
to get along with their teachers, counselors,
administrators, peers
·
to make an effective performance plan for improving behavior
·
to develop the skills of self-discipline
3. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom is a place where campers develop a growing sense
that someone cares, and an attitude that “I can make it!”
4. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom is a place to catch the disruptive camper before
things get worse.
5. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom is a place where the teacher will not amuse or
pamper the camper.
6. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom is a place where the teacher will not physically
abuse, verbally abuse, or humiliate the camper.
7. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom is a place where the camper may initially
perceive the class as dull, boring, and not a typical classroom.
8. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom is a place where the camper is treated with
respect by a strict but fair and respectable teacher.
9. The Responsible Thinking Classroom is a place
where the camper receives individual help with opportunity to succeed.
10. The Responsible Thinking Classroom is a
place where the campers learn that others care about them.
11. The Responsible Thinking Classroom is a
place where the camper is taught self-control, also known as responsible
thinking.
12. The Responsible Thinking Classroom is a
place where campers go when they refuse to obey the rules in any camp area.
13. The Responsible Thinking Classroom has as
its purpose to assure the success of all campers who want to succeed.
14. A camper is never sent to the Responsible Thinking Classroom. Failure to obey the rules in any camp area
is tantamount to a camper’s choice to go to the Responsible Thinking Classroom.
The Responsible Thinking Classroom
Atmosphere
1. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom has a supervising teacher.
2. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom teacher works individually with campers in the
class.
3. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom teacher is important to its success.
4. The
Responsible Thinking Classroom teacher teaches how to construct an effective
performance plan.
5. Parents
may need to be contacted.
6. Camper
performance plans may be coordinated with parents, campers, and teachers.
7. The
responsible thinking teacher is a conduit for a camper to move through the most
efficient process for individual success.
The Responsible Thinking Classroom
Rules
1. Each
camper will sit in a seat assigned by the Responsible Thinking Classroom
teacher.
2. A
camper is not allowed to talk with other campers in the Responsible Thinking
Classroom.
3. A
camper is not allowed to disrupt other campers in the Responsible Thinking
Classroom.
4. Things
a camper may do in the Responsible Thinking Classroom:
·
stare at wall
·
work on plan
·
read
·
put head on desk
·
sleep or rest (if necessary)
5. If a camper disrupts the
Responsible Thinking Classroom, the camper has two choices:
·
a choice to act responsibly
·
a choice to go home until willing to obey the rules
6. If
the camper chooses to go home, if he should choose to return to camp, he/she
must return to the Responsible Thinking Classroom and must follow the procedure
required to return to the class from which he/she originally came to the
responsible thinking class.
Some Definitions
1. Discipline: Discipline is teaching the camper to respect
the rights of others by learning to obey rules through responsible thinking.
2. Punishment: Punishment is trying to change a camper’s
behavior by hurting him/her, either physically or verbally, or giving them no
options or choices.
3. Good
discipline plan: A good discipline plan
provides opportunities for a camper to learn the necessary responsible thinking
that will enable them to think and act responsibly.
When Should Discipline Be Used?
1. Basic
assumptions:
A. In general, campers are given progressively
more freedom according to their ability to handle camp privileges.
B. In a ministry such as AWFR, the more a camper
can demonstrate the ability and willingness to act appropriately in social
situations, the more privileges they can be given.
C. Since campers live together in close confines,
all need to respect the rights of others by following established rules and
standards.
D. In camp teaching situations, the teacher has
the right to teach and every camper
has the right to learn.
2. When
a camper acts in ways that keep a teacher from teaching and keep other campers
from learning, or in ways that bring harm to himself/herself, there is a
discipline problem that demand attention.
3. Any
type of disruption that acts as a disturbance to others who are trying to
achieve camp goals constitutes a violation of the rights of others.
4. Some
actions, although undesirable, are not discipline problems that disturb others;
for example, forgetting to bring paper, pencil, or Bible to class, daydreaming,
not wearing name tag.
5. The
following actions indicate that responsible thinking training is required
(representative, but not exhaustive):
·
a camper bothers another while the latter is trying to learn
·
one camper hits, pushes, shoves, or trips another
·
a camper speaks out while another camper is speaking
·
a camper comes into class late
·
a camper throws something during class
·
a camper distracts another camper while the latter is
listening during a teaching session
·
a camper takes what belongs to another camper
·
a camper makes fun of another camper
·
a camper interrupts conversations
·
a camper fails to treat all others with respect
6. Discipline
should always be tied to lack of respect for others, for example, the uninvited
intrusion into the activities or private concerns of another camper.
Establishing
Discipline
1. Establishing
discipline in the home:
·
Parents should have an agreed-to strategy for raising their
children, especially when it comes to establishing the rules and standards of
the home.
·
Parents should be fair and consistent in the treatment of
children.
·
Specifically established rules allow the children to gain
responsibility in a secure environment.
·
Problems can be expected from campers if discipline has not
been established in the home.
2. Establishing discipline at camp:
·
It is critical that teachers, counselors, and administrators
work together to develop and implement camp standards and rules.
·
In order for a camp staff to succeed, they must continually
align their goals with other members of the team, and they must understand as a
team what behavior campers need to modify.
3. Campers
must learn to live with the different individual personalities of camp
leaders. These differences merely
prepare the camper for life.
Setting
Rules and Standards
1. Whether people live or work together, they have
to learn to get along together.
2. Living
in accordance with standards and rules is something all children must learn if
they are going to be able to function effectively wherever they live.
3. There
are always consequences that flow from not following rules or standards.
4. When
a camper persists in breaking the rules, he/she should be given a choice of
whether or not he/she wants to be removed from wherever he/she is to the more
restricted area known as the Responsible Thinking Classroom.
5. The
requirement for the camper to return to the area from which he/she chose to
leave is to work on an effective performance plan when a similar problem arises
in the future.
6. Responsible
thinking is taught when campers are given choices, and from this they learn
that whatever happens is in their hands.
7. When
campers are disruptive and hurtful to others, AWFR will already have some
established standards with which to assist the administration in dealing with
them.
8. When
a camper is not willing to obey camp rules or follow camp standards, he/she
should be asked to name the various choices he/she has and to explain the
consequences that will result from making the choices.
9. Consequences
should include loss of privileges related to the responsible choice they refuse
to make.
10. Restrictions and loss of privileges must
result from a camper’s unwillingness to work at resolving his/her problem.
11. Lifting restrictions and returning
privileges should be tied to a camper having committed to a specific effective
performance plan to resolve his/her problem.
Rewards
and Punishment
A system that produces desired behavior because a reward is
forthcoming or because of fear of punishment does not teach a camper how to
resolve his/her problem with divine problem solving devices.
What
Should Happen When a Camper Breaks a Rule?
1. When
a camper refuses to obey the rules in any camp environment, the key to
successful discipline is to offer him/her choices, so he/she can choose where
he/she wants to be.
2. The
camper should be given the freedom to choose the level of social contact at
which he/she is willing to act responsibly.
3. A
camper should through his own choice experience the loss of the privilege
associated with staying where he/she is until he/she is willing to accept
responsibility for his/her actions.
4. If a
camper refuses to obey the rules in any camp setting, he/she must be given alternative choices: choose to obey the rules or choose the
Responsible Thinking Classroomroom.
5. Children
know who is in authority and who is not, and they are willing to deal with
those they perceive to have authority.
6. When
campers gather for a common purpose, there is an unspoken agreement to accept
the rules and standards common to both the activity and the environment.
7. Respect
for others is part of every culture and is a necessary part of living in
harmony with others.
8. There
are always established rules and
standards. Campers learn from
experience that there are particular standards and rules for every situation.
9. Whenever
a camper violates the rights of others by refusing to obey the rules and
standards of wherever they are, they should be given the choice of being
allowed to stay and obey the rules and standards or leave where they are,
reducing their social environment until such time that they are willing to
commit to following the rules and standards and making an effective performance
plan to resolve similar problems in the future.
10. When campers cannot act responsibly in
particular situations, then they choose to forfeit the associated privileges.
11. Whenever a camper disrupts and refuses to
obey rules, there must be a place for him to go until he is willing to commit
to following the rules. That place is
the Responsible Thinking Classroom.
12. When a camper is in conflict, time and
patience are needed as he/she attempts to reorganize his/her thoughts and
decide what he/she really wants.
13. If a human being is pushed rather than given
alternative choices, that person will react according to what is currently
important to him/her, and not to what someone in authority wants.
14. If adults continually make decisions for
campers, who will make responsible choices for them when adults aren’t
available. Campers should be taught to
think for themselves.