FLESHLY
DEFENSE MECHANISMS:
CATEGORIES OF
Introduction
When
a Church Age born-again believer fails to walk by means of the Spirit, he
defaults to a walk by means of the flesh.
When
a Church Age believer is confronted by any of life’s adversities and he is
walking by mans of the flesh, it is normal for this believer to use fleshly
defense mechanisms to handle the adversity with which he is confronted.
The
problem is simply this. Fleshly
defense mechanisms have no place in the plan of God for the Church Age
believer, and the use of fleshly defense mechanisms both grieve and quench the
manifestations of the Holy Spirit in the believer’s life.
It
is impossible for the Holy Spirit to work in a believer’s life when that
believer is using fleshly defense mechanisms to handle the adversities of
life.
The
world refers to these fleshly defense mechanisms as “Ego Defense Mechanisms.”
The terms “Mental Mechanisms” and “Defense Mechanisms” are
merely synonyms for the same thing. The
primary functions of fleshly defense mechanisms are threefold:
1.
to minimize anxiety
2.
to protect the ego
3.
to maintain repression
Categories
of Fleshly Defense Mechanisms
Acting
Out: The individual deals with emotional conflict or internal or
external adversities by “acting out” rather than God’s problem solving
devices.
Affiliation: The individual deals with emotional conflict or internal or
external adversities by turning to others for help or support rather than
using God’s problem solving devices.
Aim
inhibition: This individual places a limitation upon instinctual demands;
accepting partial or modified fulfillment of desires. Examples:
1. A person may be conscious of sexual desires, but if that
person finds that desire frustrating. he may decide that all that all he
really wanted in the relationship is companionship.
2. A
student who originally wanted to be a physician decides to become a
physician's assistant.
Altruism: The individual deals with emotional conflict or internal or
external stressors by dedication to meeting the needs of others.
Unlike the self-sacrifice sometimes characteristic of reaction
formation, the individual receives gratification either vicariously or from
the response of others.
Anticipation: The individual deals with emotional conflict or internal or
external stressors by experiencing emotional reactions in advance of, or
anticipating consequences of, possible future events and considering
realistic, alternative responses or solutions.
Autistic
Fantasy:
The individual deals with emotional conflict or internal or external
stressors by excessive daydreaming as a substitute for human relationships,
more effective action, or problem solving.
Avoidance: A defense mechanism consisting of refusal to encounter
situations, objects, or activities because they represent unconscious sexual
or aggressive impulses and/or punishment for those impulses; avoidance,
according to the dynamic theory, is a major defense mechanism in phobias.
[symbolization] [displacement]
Compensation: Encountering failure or frustration in some sphere of
activity, one overemphasizes another. The
term is also applied to the process of over-correcting for a handicap or
limitation. Examples:
1. a
physically unattractive adolescent becomes an expert dancer.
2. a
youth with residual muscle damage from poliomyelitis becomes an athlete.
3. Demosthenes.
Conversion: Conflicts are presented by physical symptoms involving
portions of the body innervated by sensory or motor nerves. This mechanism and somatization are the only ones that are
always pathological. Examples:
1. a
man's arm becomes paralyzed after impulses to strike another
2. regular
heavy drinking limited to weekends;
3. long periods of sobriety interspersed with binges of
daily heavy drinking lasting for weeks or months. [somatization]
Deflection: Also detected when the individual is in group therapy and
consists of redirecting attention to another group member.
Denial: Failing to recognize obvious implications or consequences of
a thought, act, or situation. Examples:
1. a
person having an extramarital affair gives no thought to the possibility of
pregnancy.
2. persons
living near a volcano disregard the dangers involved.
3. a disabled person plans to return to former activities
without planning a realistic program of rehabilitation. [repression]
Devaluation: The individual deals with emotional conflict or internal or
external stressors by attributing exaggerated negative qualities to self or
others. [idealization]
Displacement: A change in the object by which an instinctual drive is to be
satisfied; shifting the emotional component from one object or idea to
another. Examples:
1. a woman is abandoned by her fiance’; she quickly finds
another man about whom she develops the same feelings;
2. a salesman is angered by his superior but suppresses his
anger; later, on return to his home, he punishes one of his children for
misbehavior that would usually be tolerated or ignored.
Displacements are often quite satisfactory and
workable mechanisms; if one cannot have steak, it is comforting to like
hamburger equally well. As the
March Hare observed, "I like what I have is the same as I have what I
like." However, the example of displaced anger illustrates a situation
which, if often repeated, could cause serious complications in the person’s
life. Conscious acceptance of a
substitute with full recognition that it is a substitute for something one
wants is an analog of displacement. [avoidance]
[symbolization]
Dissociation: Splitting-off a group of thoughts or activities from the main
portion of consciousness; compartmentalization. Example:
a politician works vigorously for integrity in government, but at the
same time engages in a business venture involving a conflict of interest
without being consciously hypocritical and seeing no connection between the
two activities.
Fixation: The cessation of the process of development of the
personality at a stage short of complete and uniform mature independence is
known as fixation. [regression]
Help-Rejecting
Complaining: The individual deals with
emotional conflict or internal or external stressors by complaining or making
repetitious requests for help that disguise covert feelings or hostility or
reproach toward others, which are then expressed by rejecting the suggestions,
advice, or help that others offer. The
complaints or requests may involve physical or psychological symptoms or life
problems.
Humor: The individual deals with emotional conflict or external
stressors by emphasizing the amusing or ironic aspects of the conflict or
stressors.
Idealization: Overestimation of the desirable qualities and underestimation
of the limitations of a desired object. Examples:
1. a lover speaks in glowing terms of the beauty and
intelligence of an average-looking woman who is not very bright.
2. a purchaser, having finally decided between two items,
expounds upon the advantages of the one chosen. [devaluation]
Identification: Similar to introjection, but of less intensity and
completeness. The unconscious modeling of one's self upon another person.
One may also identify with values and attitudes of a group.
Examples:
1. without being aware that he is copying his teacher, a
resident physician assumes a similar mode of dress and manner with patients.
2. a school girl wants her mother to buy her the same kind
of shoes her classmates are wearing; she angrily rejects the idea that she is
trying to be like the other girls and insists that the shoes are truly the
best available and are the style she has always wanted.
Incorporation: The assimilation of the object into one's own ego and/or
superego. This is one of the
earliest mechanisms utilized. The
parent becomes almost literally a part of the child.
Parental values, preferences, and attitudes are acquired. [introjection]
[identification]
Intellectualization: The individual deals with emotional conflict or internal or
external stressors by the excessive use of abstract thinking or the making of
generalizations to control or minimize disturbing feelings.
Introjection: The process of assimilation of the picture of an object as
the individual conceives the object to be).
For example:
When a person becomes depressed due to the loss of a
loved one, his feelings are directed to the mental image he possesses of the
loved one. [identification]
[incorporation]
Isolation: The splitting-off of the emotional components from a thought.
Example:
A medical student dissects a cadaver without being
disturbed by thoughts of death.
Isolation may be temporary affect postponement).
Example:
A bank teller appears calm and cool while frustrating
a robbery but afterward is tearful and tremulous.
Omnipotence: The individual deals with emotional conflict or internal or
external stressors by feeling or acting as if he or she possesses special
powers or abilities and is superior to others.
Passive
Aggression: The individual deals with
emotional conflict or internal or external stressors by indirectly and
unassertively expressing aggression toward others.
There is a facade of overt compliance masking covert resistance,
resentment, or hostility. Passive
aggression often occurs in response to demands for independent action or
performance or the lack of gratification of dependent wishes but may be
adaptive for individuals in subordinate positions who have no other way to
express assertiveness more avertly.
Projection: Attributing one's thoughts or impulses to another person.
In common use, this is limited to
unacceptable or undesirable impulses.
Examples:
1. a man, unable to accept that he has competitive
or hostile feelings about an acquaintance, says, “He doesn’t like
me.”
2. a woman, denying to herself that she has sexual feelings
about a co-worker, accuses him, without basis, of flirt and described him as a
“wolf.”
Projective
Identification: As in projection, the
individual deals with emotional conflict or internal or external stressors by
falsely attributing to another his or her own unacceptable feelings, impulses,
or thoughts. Unlike simple
projection, the individual does not fully disavow what is projected.
Instead, the individual remains aware of his or her own affects or
impulses but mis-attributes them as justifiable reactions to the other person.
Not infrequently, the individual induces the very feelings in others
that were first mistakenly believed to be there, making it difficult to
clarify who did what to whom first. [projection]
Rationalization: Offering a socially acceptable and apparently more or less
logical explanation for an act or decision actually produced by unconscious
impulses. The person
rationalizing is not intentionally inventing a story to fool someone else, but
instead is misleading self as well as the listener.
Examples:
1. a man buys a new car, having convinced himself that his
older car won't make it through the winter.
2. a woman with a closet full of dresses buys a new one
because she doesn't have anything to wear.
Reaction
Formation:
Going to the opposite extreme; overcompensation for unacceptable
impulses. Examples:
1. a man violently dislikes an employee; without being aware
of doing so, he "bends over backwards" to not criticize the employee
and gives him special privileges and advances.
2. a person with strong antisocial impulses leads a crusade
against vice.
3. a married woman who is disturbed by feeling attracted to
one of her husband's friends treats him rudely.
Regression: By another anxiety-evading mechanism known as regression, the
personality may suffer a loss of some of the development already attained and
may revert to a lower level of adaptation and expression.
[fixation]
Repression: The involuntary exclusion of a painful or conflictual
thought, impulse, or memory from awareness.
This is the primary ego defense mechanism; others reinforce it.
Resistance: This defense mechanism produces a deep-seated opposition to
the bringing of repressed (unconscious) data to awareness.
Through its operation, the individual seeks to avoid memories or
insights which would arouse anxiety.
Restitution: The mechanism of relieving the mind of a load of guilt by
making up or reparation paying up with interest).
[reaction formation] [undoing]
Self-Assertion: The individual deals with emotional conflict or stressors by
expressing his or her feelings and thoughts directly in a way that is not
coercive or manipulative.
Somatization: Conflicts are represented by physical symptoms involving
parts of the body innervated by the sympathetic and parasympathetic system.
Example:
A highly competitive and aggressive person, whose
life situation requires that such behavior be restricted, develops
hypertension. [conversion]
Splitting: This term is widely used today to explain the coexistence
within the ego of contradictory states, representative of self and others, as
well as attitudes to self and others; other individuals or the self is
perceived as "All good or all bad.”
Sublimation: Attenuating the force of an instinctual drive by using the
energy in other, usually constructive activities.
This definition implies acceptance of the Libido Theory; the examples
do not require it. Sublimation is
often combined with other mechanisms, among them aim inhibition, displacement,
and symbolization. Examples:
1. a man who is dissatisfied with his sex life but who has
not stepped out on his wife becomes very busy repairing his house while his
wife is out of town. Thus, he has
no time for social activities.
2. a woman is forced to undertake a restrictive diet; she
becomes interested in painting and does a number of still life pictures, most
of which include fruit.
Substitution: Through this defense mechanism, the individual secures
alternative or substitutive gratification comparable to those that would have
been employed had frustration not occurred.
Suppression: Usually fisted as an ego defense mechanism but actually the
conscious analog of repression; intentional exclusion of material from
consciousness. At times,
suppression may lead to subsequent repression.
Examples:
1. a young man at work finds that he is letting thoughts
about a date that evening interfere with his duties; he decides not to think
about plans for the evening until he leaves work.
2. a student goes on vacation worried that she may be
failing; she decides not to spoil her holiday by thinking of school.
3. a woman makes an embarrassing faux pas at a party; she
makes an effort to forget all about it.
Symbolization: An object or act represents a complex group of objects and
acts, some of which may be conflictual or unacceptable to the ego; objects or
acts stand for a repressed desire. Examples:
1. a soldier, when asked why he volunteered, he said,
"To defend the flag." He rejects as irrelevant a question about the
purpose of the war.
2. a boy asks for a girl's hand in marriage).
As in the second illustration, symbolization is often
combined with displacement. It is
one of the mechanisms usually involved in phobias. [avoidance] [displacement]
Undoing: An act or communication which partially negates a previous
one. Examples:
1. two close friends have a violent argument; when they next
meet, each act as if the disagreement had never occurred.
2. when asked to recommend a friend for a job, a man makes
derogatory comments which prevent the friend's getting the position; a few
days later, the man drops in to see his friend and brings him a small gift.
3. Napoleon made it a practice after reprimanding any
officer to find some words of praise to say at their next meeting. [reaction
formation] [restitution]